There is so much pressure to be perfect! Perfect job, perfect body, perfect family . . . It can be a lot to handle for imperfect people like us.
- Sometimes parents give that idea to their kids – that they have to be perfect. We may not say it as overtly, but kids get that message somehow. “Don’t screw up. You have to be perfect.”
- Coaches and employers have that implied message too . . . be perfect! There is no tolerance for error or any slip up. You usually get one chance. Don’t blow it. Be perfect all the time.
- And then there’s that inner voice inside of us that loves to torment us with unrealistic expectations every day. “Be perfect” we repeat to ourselves.